People that dont fight back..

I am at the moment having a conversation with one of my best friends.  Her girlfriend.. irritates the crap out of me.  Not because my friend used to be my ex.. more that this girlfriend of hers is completely.. without backbone.  She is so filled with fear about so many things.. that she is just completely standing still.   I believe in people that believe in themselves.  People that fight back to make things better, no matter how bad the circumstances are.   I guess it comes down to survival instinct.  The question why some people make it in life or a death threatening situation and while others just doesnt.   And until you reach deep inside you and find that spirit, you will not get anywhere.  I guess i am irritated by her, because i cannot understand why my friend is with her.  No, i take that back.. I do know why they are together, but in the end.. it seems like you loose so much of yourself.. that it becomes like soul suicide.  You kill yourself off.. slowly day by day.  Because you dont want to face your fear.   But you loose so much more.     I dont like her.  Nothing in me.. likes her.  She has caused me alot of pain, frustration and is completely just focussed around herself.   In the end, i dont think she cares about anyone but her self.  Her fears about so many things, is stopping me to be friends with someone that i would always want in my life..  She is limiting when and how i can see my best friend.   How can one base a friendship on that?   What started of as dislike in this person.. is mutating into something that is way stronger than dislike.. and i guess bordering on hate.  I dont hate her.  I just intensely dislike her.     if you want to get somewhere in life… you need to fight back.. and you need to do so with all that you have…  Otherwise you will become a bundle of fear filled fluff that gets blown away into nothingness..